I've got a pex system with manifold. We also travel regularly.There's two types of mixing
Point of source
Point of use
Point of source is easier and cheaper or you end up with a mess of crap under every sink. One point of source costs about the same as 2x point of use. If you factor in the labour it's about the the same money. A tank kit on PEX takes me 30 minutes. Copper takes an hour.
I run my tank at 150f and the mixing valve brings it back down to 120f. I basically turn a 40 Imperial gal tank into a 55(ish). Wife can have a full bath and I can still have a decent shower.
Since tanks are only good for 10-12 years I just take whatever I can get out of it in that time frame. In BC, tanks older than 12 years, can potentially void the insurance.
If you have an atmospheric tank I would definitely put some metal between the flex hose and the exhaust venting system.
This entire thread has been wild to read. I think I'm going to install a Source mixer and turn up my tank...
Edit; This suitable @clshades ?