You aren't alone. Benchmarks didn't alter my opinion; if anything the one review I skimmed made my sense of meh even more emphatic. Unless a compelling game comes out*, it could be another generation or two before I upgrade
* As I recall from the review, the only game that brings a 1080 Ti to its knees at 1440p was RDR 2.
even then if you sit down and tweak rdr2 you can get it running great with good graphics...
still, if you were looking to upgrade its a worthy jump from the 1080 Ti to 3080. Not so much if you are already on a 2080 Ti though.
im happy to wait to see what the gigabyte waterforce wb will look like and see what waterblocks come out from watercool