In case anyone is still following this thread….
GOOD NEWS!
I accidentally stumbled upon a setting in BIOS that did the trick: “Intel Platform Trust Technology (PTT)” was set to ‘Enabled’. I didn’t know what it was so I looked in the mobo manual and saw that although it doesn’t explain what its purpose is, it is set to ‘Disabled’ by default. So I disabled it. After a reboot into BIOS, boom! the new NVMe in the M2M slot appears!
I then got back into Windows and the drive is picked up in Disk Management. I named it and assigned a drive letter. I shall be moving the aforementioned Steam games to this SSD.
Overall what a headache. I was seriously pondering of procuring a new mobo/CPU but now (and still sadly) I can hold off on that expense.
Now I’m curious if I should go back and see if any previously revised settings (AHCI, CSM Support, SecureBoot, etc.) should be reverted? Maybe some more experimenting in the next day or so.
And I need to ge search what that PTT is all about.
L8R!